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upwardsandonwards33 · 17/02/2017 18:01

The restaurant have said it's fine - group of 7-8 of us but can we have it in lieu of dessert? Yes I know it means the restaurant won't profit from us buying dessert but we will buy starters and mains. Just wanting to know your experiences really.

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ExcellentWorkThereMary · 17/02/2017 18:03

In my experience if restaurant says it's ok, then it's ok! I've had restaurants provide plates and cutlery for us to eat our cake.

FeliciaJollygoodfellow · 17/02/2017 18:03

We've always done this as a family. Never been a problem.

Snifftest · 17/02/2017 18:04

If the restaurant says it's fine then it is fine.

upwardsandonwards33 · 17/02/2017 18:04

So do you do it and not order dessert?

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AllBraines · 17/02/2017 18:05

I work in a restaurant, this happens all the time, never a problem, we even provide plates and cutlery

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Heathcliff27 · 17/02/2017 18:06

We do it and order teas and coffees instead of dessert. I was a waitress for a while and this was standard practice. Sometimes we will order ice cream for the kids.

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MrsMillions · 17/02/2017 18:06

Maybe make a point of ordering an extra round of drinks or teas/coffees to go with it?

WiggleYourWoo · 17/02/2017 18:07

Yes you can have the cake as your dessert, normally the restaurant will be happy with it and will provide plates and cutlery.

MongerTruffle · 17/02/2017 18:09

It's fine if the restaurant says so. I would order tea/coffee or a scoop of ice cream each anyway to go with the cake.

BaconMaker · 17/02/2017 18:11

I've done it a few times - waiters took the cake and candles we brought and brought it out as a surprise for my mum on her birthday. We added a few pounds extra onto the tip but we were a largish party (8) and had ordered lots of drinks (where they make most of their money apparently) so I didn't feel bad about it as far as restaurant profit went.

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Chickiwick · 17/02/2017 18:26

This is very normal. Have a lovely time!

upwardsandonwards33 · 17/02/2017 18:35

Great thanks for the advice. Will do it with confidence

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GangstaRat · 17/02/2017 22:08

We took a Colin the Caterpillar to a restaurant last week :D

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Can you take a birthday cake to a restaurant? ›

The short answer is "usually," but there are caveats. There are many reasons to call a restaurant ahead of time, and this is one of them. Customers shouldn't automatically assume that they can bring cake (or any outside food, for that matter) into a food-service establishment unless given permission.

How do I ask for a birthday cake in a restaurant? ›

Waiting to tell your server until they first approach the table can seem cloyingly desperate, so consider notifying the staff ahead of time — mention it when making the reservation over the phone, or indicate the birthday online if the restaurant or reservation site asks if you're celebrating anything.

How do you use birthday cake in a sentence? ›

Birthday cake and lemonade will be served. The victors were given a party complete with a big birthday cake. After the presentation, my brother produced a kidney-shaped birthday cake. He had 114 candles on his last birthday cake.

Can you take a birthday cake to Miller and Carter? ›

Yes and we were told they can not put in the kitchen due to covid but will go on a trolley and brought to the table later...

Can I take a birthday cake into mcdonalds? ›

Food from an outside source is prohibited. You may bring a homemade birthday cake if you wish, but a Release of Harm form will need to be completed the day of your party. Can I bring in outside entertainment?

What can I bring instead of cake for birthday? ›

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Is it rude to refuse birthday cake? ›

No, it isn't rude to refuse cake at a birthday party. It's never rude to refuse any food offered to you with a simple, “No, thank you.” People have medical conditions such as diabetes and may not want to eat cake. People may not even like cake.

How do I ask for cake donations? ›

Don't be afraid to approach local shops/bakeries for donations for the sale; make sure when approaching them you are clear on what you are doing, why you are doing it, what it is you want and what you can offer in return eg a mention on the event poster, or a thank you note next to their cakes on the day so people know ...

How much cake to buy for birthday party? ›

A full-sheet cake (18 x 24 inches, requiring approximately 16 cups of batter) serves up to 80 people. Meanwhile, 1/2 sheet cake (18 x 12 inches and using 7 to 8 cups of batter) should be enough for 36-48 guests. And the smallest option, 1/4 sheet cake (9 x 13 inches, up to 4 cups of batter), can feed 20-24 people.

What is a small sentence for cake? ›

I made three cakes for the party. He blew out the candles on his birthday cake. The cake is made with all the guests in mind, and that costs a lot of time and money.

What is an example sentence for birthday party? ›

My children threw a birthday party for me. Here are some easy birthday party games for kids! He threw a surprise birthday party for his wife Elizabeth last week. This year Matthew had his first real birthday party and got invited to a friend's house in return.

What is a sample sentence for birthday? ›

Her birthday is September 30th. Today is his 21st birthday. The company just celebrated its 50th birthday.

Can I take a birthday cake through airport security? ›

The answer to your first question: Yes, you can fly with a cake. You can carry it on (the airlines will count it as a personal item) or even check it in your luggage. But what kind of cake? A pound, Bundt or any other dense crumb will survive almost any trip and will last for days.

Do you bring your own cake to a cake smash? ›

can i provide my own cake? You are more than welcome to provide your own cake if you wanted something more elaborate for your session, or have someone that wants to make your cake as a gift.

Do Miller and Carter do birthday requests? ›

Book that special occasion at Miller & Carter and enjoy a truly memorable experience. From birthday parties to anniversaries and graduations you can trust the steak experts to take care of all the little important details and help you celebrate in style.

Why you should celebrate your birthday at a restaurant? ›

One of the main advantages of celebrating your birthday at a restaurant is the wide variety of food options available. Restaurants offer diverse menus, catering to different tastes and dietary preferences, ensuring that everyone can find something they enjoy.

Can you bring food to a birthday party? ›

Dear Some: If someone offers to bring a dish, it's OK for the hostess to accept, but including a dish assignment with the invitation is inappropriate. People should have the parties they can afford. Most guests are perfectly happy attending a birthday party where only cake and ice cream are served.

What is a cake fee? ›

a charge that you pay in some restaurants for being allowed to eat a cake or cakes there that you have brought yourself: Restaurants often charge customers to cut and plate the cake you have brought. The practice has come to be called cakeage. Compare. corkage.

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