There’s already a lot of pressure for your wedding day – to have wonderful weather, to looking amazing, to not fumbling the rings, etc. But who knew that there were actual superstitions behind these possible occurrences that could influence the success of your marriage? Not helping, right? If you’re superstitious, be on the lookout for these signs of good and bad luck!
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No Peeking
You’ve probably heard that it’s bad luck to see your fiancé on the wedding day before your ceremony. The reason being that, back when marriages were arranged, the bride and groom weren’t allowed to see or meet each other at all until they were at the altar. Parents of the bride feared that, if the couple met each other before marrying, the groom wouldn’t find the bride attractive and would decide to call off the wedding. They were so careful, in fact, that part of the reason why the bride wore a veil down the aisle was to prevent the groom from knowing what she looked like until the very last second – when it’s too late to back out! Flattering, huh?!
Today, this superstition has phased out as we see more and more couples choosing to do a “first look” before the nuptials. But not everyone! Many couples still choose to remain unseen before the ceremony in order to save that special moment of seeing each other for the actual wedding. Either way, superstition: debunked!
“And a Silver Sixpence in her Shoe”
You’ve heard “something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue” but did you realize this old rhyme is supposed to finish with “and a silver sixpence in her shoe”? The first four in the rhyme are symbols to represent a happy marriage, new union, a special token of love, and fidelity. However, the last line relates back to the belief that keeping a penny in one of the bride’s shoes is a token of good luck that will promise a life of good fortune. Sounds tedious to walk around all day with something in your shoe, but well worth it if you believe in luck!
I’m Not Crying, You’re Crying
It’s sentimental to tear up on your wedding day, and it can be both beautiful and meaningful to shed a single elegant tear as your eyes glisten with emotion. Supposedly, it’s good luck for the bride to cry on her wedding day as a crying bride means that she has shed all the tears she has and will not have any to shed during her marriage. If you plan on following through with this one, be sure to wear waterproof mascara!
🎵 “It’s Like Ra-ain on Your Wedding Day”
While most brides might think that having rain on the day of their wedding is far from ideal, a lot of people believe that this is actually a good thing! It may seem that that’s all just to make the bride feel better about the situation, but in some cultures, wedding-day rain represents fertility, cleansing of the past, and unity! However, some say that the rain actually symbolizes the number of tears that the bride will cry during her marriage…
This one’s a toss-up. But we say, hey, your wedding is one of the most important and happiest days of your life! Let it rain like your love and make the best of it!
Here Trips the Bride
It’s a classic gesture for the groom to carry his bride into their home/hotel room after the wedding. But what we thought was just romance and chivalry, is actually prevention of bad luck! Story has it that, if a bride trips over the threshold into their new home, it will bring bad luck upon the marriage. Therefore, the groom has been trusted to carry the bride (and definitely not trip) to avoid this mishap.
The ITSY-BITSY Spider Crawled Up the . . .Wedding Dress?
It’s been said that finding a spider on your wedding dress is good luck. We’re not sure why this was believed back in old English folklore, but good luck or not, something tells us most brides would be okay with skipping out on this one!
Till Death do us Part
Apparently, dropping the rings during the ceremony means that the marriage is doomed. And you’ll want to really hold onto those suckers because whomever is the one who drops them will be the one to die first! That’s totally something you want to think about on your wedding day…
FAQs
It is good fortune for the bride to see a policeman, clergyman, doctor or blind man on her way to the church. If the bride sees a rainbow on her way to the ceremony, it is a very lucky sign for the couple. Sunshine on the way to the church is good luck.
What is the most unlucky month to get married? ›
While these old sayings are certainly ominous, July actually isn't the worst month to wed. According to folklore as well as ancient Roman tradition, the title of unluckiest month to get married goes to May. While July weddings promise some troubles in the future, May weddings are sure to end in regret!
What is a good luck symbol for a wedding? ›
Horseshoes. For centuries, horseshoes have been a traditional symbol of good luck in Celtic culture. Not only do they offer good luck, but they also make for perfect decorations for a rustic wedding!
What culture has 7 day wedding? ›
Wedding traditions vary around the world. And while it may seem unheard of in many Western countries, a Moroccan wedding can last up to seven days. Traditionally, a week-long wedding was standard in Morocco.
What is the luckiest time of day to get married? ›
Most Brides stick with a half hour start time on the up swing of the clock. It's an old superstition that the couple will have good luck with they are married on the upswing of the hour. Depending on the season will depend on when I suggest the ceremony to start. You'll want to think about the timing of the sunset.
What time is good luck to get married? ›
Get married on the upswing.
Legend dictates that saying your “I Dos” on the downswing of the clock (so between 2:00 and 2:30, for instance) allows the luck to run out (literally sliding down the minute hand of the clock). Getting hitched on the upswing (5:30-6 p.m., for instance) uplifts your marriage.
What day should you not get married? ›
Friday the 13th: Many consider Friday the 13th to be an unlucky day. As such, most couples choose to avoid tying the knot on Friday the 13th. There will be a Friday the 13th in September and December 2024, and in June 2025. In 2026, there will be a Friday the 13th on February 13, March 13, and November 13.
What is the rarest month to get married? ›
Wedding off-season in the US is typical during winter, specifically January and February. July and November are also unpopular wedding months in some regions. Many wedding venues and vendors offer lower prices and discounts during these months to attract more couples.
What is the luckiest number to get married? ›
A specific number couples should look for when planning their weddings is the number eight. It's a particularly lucky number in the Chinese Zodiac as it is a representation of infinity. This makes August 8 a particularly auspicious day for a wedding as it falls on the 8th day of the 8th month.
What color is good luck for marriage? ›
However, red and white are considered the best for weddings. Along with decorations, wedding Kimonos in Japan are often made of these two colors. The combination of white and red is supposed to bring good luck to the new couple.
A number of marriage numismatic charms depict the image of a dragon and a fenghuang on their reverse sides, usually the obverse sides of these amulets often contain a cash coin inscription, fantasy cash coin inscription, or a more auspicious inscription related to either marriage or having plenty.
Is rain on wedding day good luck? ›
Rain on your wedding day is good luck because it signifies that your marriage will last. As you know, a knot that becomes wet is extremely hard to untie – therefore, when you “tie the knot” on a rainy day, your marriage is supposedly just as hard to unravel! We can thank Hindu traditions for this belief.
Why does the bride walk around 7 times? ›
The bride circling the groom symbolizes the delineation of their own private world within the outer world, with her husband-to-be at its center. She continues to circuit seven times, symbolizing that she, the “foundation of the home,” is founding a lasting edifice that will be complete until the end of time.
Why is the number 7 important in marriage? ›
A prominent example is called Saptapadi, (seven steps). This is a core part of a Hindu marriage ceremony, which states that the husband and wife take seven steps representing the seven principles and promises they make to each other.
What do Jews do the night of their wedding? ›
Dancing The Night Away at Your Wedding. After the Jewish Wedding comes the real party, the reception! The bride and groom eat their fill and dance with all of their friends and family. During the traditional Horah dance, the guests lift the bride and groom on chairs, bringing them above their heads into the air.
Do you wish someone good luck on their wedding day? ›
Yes, it is appropriate to say "wish you good luck" for a wedding. This phrase is commonly used to express well-wishes and blessings for the couple as they embark on their new journey together.
Does rain on your wedding day mean good luck? ›
Rain on your wedding day is good luck because it signifies that your marriage will last. As you know, a knot that becomes wet is extremely hard to untie – therefore, when you “tie the knot” on a rainy day, your marriage is supposedly just as hard to unravel! We can thank Hindu traditions for this belief.
Who traditionally gives the blessing at a wedding? ›
Oftentimes, this is the father of the bride, but it could also be a grandparent, pastor, close friend or another relative or caretaker. If more than one person is giving a blessing, spread them throughout the day, like the end of the wedding ceremony, start of the reception meal and at the send-off.
