It happened didn’t it? You’ve sat down with your partner, you’ve made your list and you’ve sent out your invites. But then there’s that one person that wants to know if they can bring a plus one.
Don’t worry, it doesn’t have to get awkward. Here’s the perfect way to politely decline a request for a plus one to your wedding!
1. Let them know you would love to extend the invite to both of them...
Wait, what?
Not like that, but by saying you would love to extend the invite to both of them, you are acknowledging that you do appreciate they are of significance to your invitee.
2. Let them know you're only in a position to invite them
Due to many reasons, none of which you need to list, you’re only in a position to invite your guest.
There’s no need to explain yourself, just stating that you’re not in a position to extend the invite is enough.
3. Follow up with an appreciation of their understanding
Close off the conversation with an appreciation of their understanding. This will let them know it’s not up for discussion, the decision has been made.
4. Finish it off with an intent to catch up
Let them know you look forward to a catch up with the both of them after the wedding. Solidifying that you’re not dismissing their relationship, there just isn’t a spot for them at your wedding.
Sending via text?
Keep it short, simple and to the point.
‘Although we would love to extend the invite to both you and your partner, we are unfortunately, due to many reasons, are only in a position to invite you.
We appreciate your understanding and look forward to catching up with you both when we get back from our honeymoon.’
Declining a request for a plus one doesn’t need to be awkward. Be confident with your decision.
Venue: Mulberry EstatePhotographer: Fox and Luna Photography
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